Why Not You?

Why Not You?

Two things. First, for the duration of this article I am going to be a dick. I am not a naturally sympathetic person, just ask my younger sister. The "Honest Asshole" is a role I can slide into easily. Second, it is important that you know the question posed in this...

The Importance of Difficult

The Importance of Difficult

No matter who you are, there is one thing that is a consistently clear measurement of whether you are pushing yourself in the right direction. Difficult. The more difficult something is for you, the better. I am aware this idea is counter to virtually every trend in...

So, What’s Good About It?

So, What’s Good About It?

The more I travel, the more I recognize just how lucky I am. My being a part of three different demographic groups; white, male and middle-class US citizen; has allowed me opportunities that are not available to a majority of the world. As my uncle likes to say; if...

Why Not Vote?

Why Not Vote?

What trips most people up is the wording in the Constitution. Technically speaking, the 26th Amendment does read "The right of citizens of the United States, who are 18 years of age or older..." yadda yadda yadda. But those guys who wrote the amendment... yea, they...

Why Not Look Silly?

Why Not Look Silly?

"If you want to improve, be content to be thought foolish and stupid." Epictetus Over the past year and a half, I have successfully learned to speak Spanish. I am in no way fluent, but I can hold my own. Aside from living in Spanish-speaking countries, I...

Why Not Get Lost?

Why Not Get Lost?

"Not all those who wander are lost." J.R.R. Tolkien If you are looking for a way to spice up your next date night, I have a great suggestion. It is fun. It is an exercise that helps to eliminate expectations and is fantastic practice for letting go of control. You can...

The Importance of Being First.

The Importance of Being First.

"Love, it will not betray you, dismay or enslave you, it will set you free. Be more like the man you were made to be." Mumford and Sons The recipe for having better interactions with people, making new friends, and becoming the life of your next party is...